Wednesday, 1 July 2015
It goes without saying that our world is rapidly being re-shaped and reconfigured by a hand full of powerful and "progressive" nations , organisations and personalities who have a distorted view of the nature of human life, marriage and family. They are re-defining culture and civilization and in the process really destroying the core values that have held many societies together.
In Africa, our resilience in difficulty is underpinned by our respect for the sanctity of human, our celebration of motherhood and our appreciation for the family.
If this hegemonic social reconstruction is allowed to get a foothold on our continent, the devastation will be beyond repair.
This is why we are raising our voices, this is why we are calling out to every person of goodwill to join us in dissuading the abortion advocates, the population control enthusiasts, the LGBT activists and the cultural imperialists who have been hovering over Africa in the last few years.
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Friday, 22 May 2015
(By: Obianuju Ekeocha)When I was growing up in the South-Eastern Nigerian city of Owerri, I remember once when unspeakable crimes were committed, a poor boy was kidnapped, killed for ritual, and cut up like an animal. These acts signified a very dark time for my people. Eventually a group of men were arrested in connection with the crimes, they were swiftly charged, judged, convicted and sentenced to death by firing squad. I remember, albeit with the immature mind of a teenager, that many people accepted and even welcomed this verdict because of the gravity of the crimes the men were convicted of.
For months after the verdict the people of Owerri lived in peace under the logic that if these men were killed then justice would have been done and equilibrium will be returned to our world. And so there was little or no appeal for the condemned men and there was no recourse to mercy. Once they were put on death row, many forgot about them and there they lived in our maximum security prison for months and months and months. They were heavily guarded, powerless, subdued and unable to hurt anyone else. This was how it was until the day crept up on us all. The day of execution.
I will never forget this day because even though by law, justice was to be served, but there was no real feeling of victory or jubilation in our city. Rather there was the feeling of a dark gloomy cloud settling over us as everyone counted down to the last few hours until the executions. And what a feeling!
This was such a high interest case that everyone knew about it and the press converged upon it to give us what felt at the time like a minute by minute report. Everyone waited for the thundering gun shots that will deliver justice. Many went to watch this happen. Those who couldn't watch went close enough to the prisons to hear the multiple shots when they came. So none of us was exempt from the reality of this execution.
And when it finally happened, there was an overwhelming stench of raw emotions that cocooned the entire city for days afterwards.
Justice was served, but yet joy eluded us all. This was in 1997. And I have gladly buried this memory for almost 20 years.
But in the last few days, something has been triggered and a dam has broken in my mind and I feel the thoughts and emotions rushing out.
This started 2 weeks ago in the wake of the high profile rescue of hundreds of abducted persons from Sambisa forest many of whom were women and girls. A real miracle that our military was able to bring them out of the "lions den" alive. Being so far away in Europe, I wanted to enjoy the profound relief and feel the victory of this miracle, so I started reading and watching every news I could find about these women and girls.
But the heavy feeling of gloom came when I read the early statements of UNFPA that highlighted that many of the women and girls were pregnant and that what the women and girls needed as much as food and medicine was "psychotherapy and counseling".
Knowing the pro-abortion stance of UNFPA (which they do not hide), I was almost certain that they were signaling for a unanimous acceptance for abortion in this case.
Soon after, this statement sparked unbelievable agitation in the pro-abortion western countries as their journalists weighed in on the matter . Their voices were unified. Their verdict was quick. Their version of justice in this particular case was for the provision of "safe-abortions" . Their only vision of peace was for the execution of these babies conceived in a most traumatic circumstance.
Many may recoil from my description of abortion as execution, but like it or leave it, abortion is the execution of the unborn child.
Abortion in every case, entails the poisoning, pulling out or dismembering the baby growing in the safe haven of the mother's womb. So it is an execution.
As it stands now, there is an ongoing debate throughout Nigeria as to whether abortion can be justified in this very difficult case or not, but I assure you that many people in the western world had already made up their minds about these babies mere hours after the rescue of the women and girls. They thought and talked about this ahead of us and they herded us to this heated point of discussion and disagreement.
It is at this heated point where emotions are high and thoughts are clouded, that something triggered and broke the dam of memory in my mind and flushed out the vivid thoughts of the Owerri-execution.
Thankfully, many Nigerians have advised against abortion, and in full disclosure I stand with them in this life-affirming and pro-life stance (and I will tell you why).
But , to my great sadness, I have read lately about some Nigerian NGO's and interest groups that are now advocating for the swift execution of these unborn babies, if the pregnant mothers choose not to carry their babies to term.
So the only way these babies can receive mercy is if their traumatized and deeply wounded mothers are able to choose life (instead of death for them).
I don't know about you, but if I was ever wounded and traumatized as these women were in that forest, if I had to face my death every single day, if I received absolutely no mercy from a group of terrorists, I may not be able to choose life for anyone let alone a child growing inside me.
I may not be able to give mercy when my wounds are still so fresh. But I will be completely dependent on my brothers and sisters to help me and strengthen me to show mercy and choose life for the tender unborn, and even when that fails, I will depend on my resilient community and the impeccable just life-affirming laws of our land to choose life on my behalf.
My dear people, no one may fully be able to understand the excruciating pain and trauma of these women but one thing we can do as a people and as a nation is to surround them with the most tender mercy that we can offer to them and yes to their unborn children who are also (in many ways) survivors.
We might not consider it fully at this point but we are a nation of mercy. We are nation that is fueled and functioning as a direct consequence of mercy. We are a nation that has received more mercy in our reserves than even petroleum!
Was it not only 10 or 11 months ago when the deadly Ebola virus struck us along slide 2 other West African countries? Was it not purely miraculous that our nation was spared the horrific road that the other Ebola-stricken nations had to travel? Were we any better than them or more worthy than them?
But yet we obtained inexplicable mercy. Thousands of lives were spared. And within mere weeks, to the great surprise of the entire world, we were declared Ebola-free. We received mercy.
In the last few years, we have woken up to the indescribable horror and terror of Boko Haram. And everyone of us will agree that their actions and operations are merciless, viscous and violent beyond words. And so we pray for an end to the death and destruction that they are dealing upon our country. We pray for mercy.
But if we are to receive mercy, are we not to show mercy?
This is why we as a nation and as a people must stand apart from the ways of the terrorists. Their merciless ways, their vicious actions, and their violent executions.
This is why Nigeria must show mercy today by refusing and rejecting the verdict of execution (by abortion) of these babies conceived in horror, terror and trauma.
Abortion is not for us or our children for it is a violent solution sanitized within the wounded heart of the western world and we just cannot accept it now or ever. Not even when it is offered as "justice".
This is an appeal from the heart of a woman who learnt almost 20 years ago that executions carried out to deliver justice might never deliver joy.
Our joy and healing will only be assured if we unconditionally and mercifully choose life for every man, woman and child (born and unborn) rescued from the den of our enemies.
Friday, 15 May 2015
As International Planned Parenthood Federation (and other like-minded groups) continues to mount coordinated pressure on African nations for legal and "safe" abortion for women, we see them pouring astronomical amounts of money to grease corrupt palms, confuse undecided minds and harden unsuspecting hearts towards the unborn in various African countries.
This is most unfortunate because throughout our Continent, there is a unanimous celebration of human life from the womb, there is a great recognition of motherhood and a love for family life. This the African civilization of love.
But all of this is under severe attack by the well-paid proponents of Abortion who have flown into Africa on the wings of wealthy, western pro-abortion organizations like Planned Parenthood, Marie Stopes and Ipas.
In their own words, "African women should have the choice and access to legal and safe abortion".
They speak with the unmistakable force and arrogance of 21st century imperialists as if legal automatically implies safety.
In many parts of Africa where these organisations have spread their tentacles, they remain unchallenged and unquestioned.
But today we ask them on behalf of millions of African people : does Legal mean "Safe" ?
Of course not.
Many thanks to the Freedom of Information Act in most western countries, we know for a fact that even in abortion facilities in the most developed countries like America, there are many reports of serious to life-threatening incidents like perforation of the uterus, severe bleeding and fatal infections directly resulting from their "legal and supposedly safe" abortions.
One of the short audio clips posted , we can clearly hear a 911 emergency call made from a Planned Parenthood abortion business facility in Texas , USA. This is what a botched abortion sounds like. This is what a botched "legal" abortion sounds like... Perforation of the uterus which can (and has) lead to the needless deaths of young women who bought the lie of abortion.
Bear in mind that this kind of medical emergency following botched abortions is not rare. And bear in mind that this is happening in the United States of America.
Bear in mind that this kind of medical emergency following botched abortions is not rare. And bear in mind that this is happening in the United States of America.
At least their abortionists can fall back on 911 when they hurt women during abortions. The question is if this was happening in an African country, who will the abortionists call?
How many cases of uterus perforation will we have daily ?
How many cases of severe bleeding will happen daily?
How many deadly post-abortion infections will be recorded?
How many cases of dangerous incomplete misoprostol abortions will we have?
How many cases of dangerous incomplete misoprostol abortions will we have?
How many abortionists will grossly neglect the safety of women?
Remember, if they do not care about your baby, then they will not care for your body.
Dear International Planned Parenthood Federation , none of our African nations can afford to embrace or espouse your lie and fallacy of "Legal & Safe Abortion".
We want to continue celebrating and respecting human life from conception,women's lives, motherhood, fatherhood and family life.Africa desires to remain Pro-Life and we understand that contrary to what you are saying to our leaders, Legal ≠ Safe !
Thursday, 30 April 2015
Wednesday, 22 April 2015
PROTECTING GOD’S GIFTS OF LIFE & FAMILY
In response to the encroaching Culture of Death, the increasing violation of the sanctity of human life around the world, and in line with Pope Francis’ call for the need to sustain and support marriage and family life, the Catholic Bishops, priests, religious and laity of the Ibadan Ecclesiastical Province in Nigeria, convened an International Pro-life and Pro-family conference from 13th to 15th of April 2015 with the theme Protecting Human Life and Family Values in the Rising Tide of the Culture of Death .
This conference brought together about 1500 participants from every corner of the Ibadan province who benefited greatly from the wide array of topics pertaining to the issues of sanctity of human life and the defence of marriage and family, presented by reputable pro-life and pro-family speakers,leaders, advocates, activists and researchers from Europe, America and Africa.
Based on these discussions and presentations at the Conference,
We hereby declare that :
i. Every human being is created in the image and likeness of God. Life is God’s gift and this life begins at conception. Thus, every nation, every Institution, every man and woman must respect, protect and uphold the dignity of every human life from the moment of conception till its natural end.
ii. Sacramental marriage is instituted by God as an indissoluble union between one man and one woman, open to life and love . Thus, other forms of unions such as homosexual unions, polygamous unions, and adulterous unions are inimical to the mind of the creator. They undermine the integrity of the human being, the family and as such should never be promoted or supported in our society.
iii. The family is the cradle where life is nurtured and protected. Thus, every family,with marriage at its core, must create a conducive environment where the inestimable value of life is emphasised and upheld.
iv. Chastity and fidelity are core virtues that are indeed at the root of every Culture of Life and Civilization of love. Therefore they should be promoted in our society as a core aspect of pro-life and pro-family activism.
v. Professional, men and women especially in the fields of medicine, sciences, law, politics, academia and media are obliged to use their experiences and expertise to promote and protect the sanctity of life, the dignity of human sexuality, the blessings of motherhood and the beauty of family-togetherness in our society.
-The encroachment of the Culture of Death in many African countries.
-the radical promotion of Abortion and contraception by various international organisations through international platforms and humanitarian aid.
-the hyper-sexualisation of our youth through morally objectionable campaigns by these organisations.
-the intentional disregard for our cultural identity and values especially on issues relating to the sanctity of life and the dignity of human sexuality.
-the persistent and pernicious attempts to impose population control on Africa by wealthy philanthropists, donor nations and international organisations.
-the lack of emphasis on the importance of faith and family in human development, public education and in the social order.
Pope Saint John Paul II clearly pointed out that "Society as a whole must respect, defend and promote the dignity of every human person, at every moment and in every condition of that person's life.
To be truly a people at the service of life we must propose these truths constantly and courageously".[Evangelium Vitae 81-82]
On this note and strengthened by this message, we therefore invite every member of our human society to the noble service of constantly and courageously defending the sanctity of human life, marriage and family. With the hope that in so doing, we would stop the encroachment of the Culture of Death even as we have, through our conference, sown the seeds of an authentic Culture of Life for today and for the generations to come.
Most Reverend Emmanuel Badejo
Bishop of Oyo
Chairman, Communications Department
Ibadan Ecclesiastical Province Bishops Conference
Ms Obianuju Ekeocha
Pro-Life Advocate & Biomedical Scientist
Friday, 13 February 2015
By now, most people would have heard about the movie adaptation of the distasteful erotica novel - 50 Shades of Grey by British author E.L. James. This thinly veiled perverse glorification of sexual violence has now generated record sales around the world - 70 million copies and counting. This is probably why Hollywood rushed to latch unto this twisted and depraved appetite for sexual perversion.
Some insightful articles have already been written about the demerits and detriments of this movie to the society at large. I highly recommend these thoroughly explanatory pieces that bring to the fore, all the socially and morally objectionable aspects of E.L James' 50 shades of Grey.
This erotica tries to frame sadomasochism and sexual domination as a valid and normal expression of love. This plot in fact epitomizes, in all glitz and glam, the darkened thoughts of the violent rapist who believes that their cruel sexual violence is indeed enjoyable even for the one being violated.
This is dark and depraved.
So with Africa always on my mind, I tried to find out if this movie had enough global ambitions to cast its shadows over the Continent of Africa.
And to my great consternation, Africa has not escaped the grey shadows of this distasteful movie.
Given the heartbreaking reality of the high rate of sexual violence and rape in South Africa (sometimes called the rape capital of the world) , one would think that the 50 Shades of Grey will not be shown here, but some insensitive South African cinema houses like the Ster-Kinekor Theatres have already advertised 50 Shades of Grey as the "hottest cinema experience of the year". I am sure that the hundreds of thousands of South African women who have been raped will testify that there is nothing "hot" about rape other than the excruciating hurt and humiliation a women feels when she is violated.
However, in the insatiable quest for money and business, Ster-Kinekor Theatres also have this movie showing all through this weekend in Namibia and Zimbabwe. And they have put so much efforts to lure as many women as possible to it.
In my country, Nigeria, we have this potent poison of sexual perversion being served to us by Silver Bird Cinemas at all their branches (Abuja, Lagos and Port Harcourt).
All in time for Valentines, the Cinema entrepreneurs sell us perversion for peace, lust for love, rape for romance. For the thrill of their big ticket-sellouts , they are willing to throw Africa off the dangerous cliff of BDSM (Bondage-Dominance-Sadomasocism), as long as they can smile to the bank.
Sexual bondage, handcuffs, blindfolds, whips, chains...these are some of the milder paraphernalia of the BDSM demi-monde which promises nothing but humiliation, manipulation, objectification, isolation and degradation of women (and men).
This most unhealthy primitive perversion has not emanated from Africa. Ironically it has been formed and fashioned in the glamourous circles of the developed world.
And I can say with all conviction that its darkness is as far removed from our African cultural heritage as one can imagine. Most African ethnic languages do not even have the words to describe this debased sexual sub-culture, this is why many Africans will just call it - Abomination.
So I ask the burning question on my mind...how is it that these cinema houses are able to bring 50 Shades of Grey to our big-screens in Africa.
Surely they have done so without going through the appropriate censorship and broadcasting boards.
Surely no African censorship board or commission will grant permission to this movie. Not when it has been rated "R" in the USA for "Strong sexual content , some unusual behaviour, graphic nudity and strong language".
Surely these censorship bodies exist to carefully consider the contents of all public entertainment while bearing in mind the moral views and values of our society.
Surely their duty is precisely to protect the African people from invasions of perverse ideologies woven into movies such as this one.
Already the censorship commissions of Kenya and Uganda have risen to their full stature to protect their people from this putrid production. And for this, we applaud them.
There is this constant rhetorical demand by various institutions for an end to sexual violence against African women, and almost every month some international organization or western nation is hosting a high-budget conference to bring attention to this issue. We see them spend a lot of money on colourful posters and media pieces.
But in the spirit of consistency, one cannot call for the end of sexual violence in Africa with one hand and then stoke the flames of sexual perversion with the other hand.
So, I call out to all African governments, women's organizations, human rights groups as well as all broadcasting and censorship commissions to carefully consider the corrosive effects that the 50 shades of Grey will have on the hearts and minds of millions of people across our Continent.
African women deserve peace not perversion.
African women deserve love not lust.
African women deserve romance not rape.
So kick and keep these "50 Shades of Grey" out of our Africa !!!!
Wednesday, 21 January 2015
It was an excellent interview that captures succinctly the on going battle to protect the pro-life and pro-family stance of the African people and it is a pleasure to share it with you . To listen to the interview click here .
Wednesday, 24 December 2014
To you we extend our heart-felt gratitude.
You have given us the will and courage to continue to grow stronger and more resolute in this pro-life mission for Africa.
May this holy season of Christmas bring to you and yours God's great gifts of grace and goodness.
And may your life be filled with the peace and joy of our Lord in the days and years ahead.
Monday, 8 December 2014
A "Family Planning" conference has just been concluded in Abuja, the capital of my country and what I found most remarkable about it was that this one conference attracted 11 very wealthy, and mostly western sponsors- DFID, USAID, Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation, MacArthur Foundation, UNFPA etc.
Very wealthy and indeed very western!
Any one of them could have single-handedly sponsored a conference in any part of the world but to have 11 of these giants gather over one little conference in Nigeria is worth careful consideration.
Along side these sponsors were also about 25 powerful organizations enlisting as the "corporate partners/planning committee" of the conference, these included major organizations well known in Europe and America for their single-minded radical pro-abortion and anti-life stance. These included organizations like International Planned parenthood Federation, Marie Stopes International, Ipas, Pathfinder and many others.
Yes, all of them gathered in Abuja so as to nudge and prod Nigeria towards the direction of "family planning".
Family Planning is a term that is (or should be) self explanatory. It should mean the planning of one's family. It should be a term that by default points to married committed couples who have a family to plan. It should be family-centred and it should connote self-mastery and self-discipline (for every good plan should be undergirded by discipline) . Family planning.
It should be a good,healthy, pure and beautiful concept. Couples, guided by the spirit of openness to love and life, can plan their family together while understanding that any life conceived by their union is a gift of enormous value. Family planning should be natural and healthy to both husband and wife. It should not be destructive or detrimental to health of mind and body (as many if not most of the artificial contraception available today can and often do cause much damage to health).
Family planning should entail a lot of love, understanding, generosity of spirit, humility, patience, self-control, fidelity, communication, care and cooperation. All of these enrich the marital bond and strengthen the rich marriage and family-oriented culture that Nigeria already has.
However, the "Family Planning" conference that was recently brought into Abuja (by mostly western actors) had very little or nothing at all to do with self-control or fidelity or patience or even marriage! On the contrary it had much to do with promoting a hedonistic, individualistic and selfish view of sex.
The conference had a very unhealthy focus on normalizing sexual activities among the Nigerian youth outside the context of marriage. They had highly eroticized campaigns targeting the young. They had presentations on topics like "Addressing the Family Planning service needs of youth".
Well, if they are youth, what need do they have for "family planning"? If they do not have a "family" then what exactly are they "planning"? What is so dire about the family planning needs of our young adolescents to warrant 11 powerful sponsors and 25 corporate partners?
The truth is that the listed organizers, sponsors and planners of this conference are very much in tune with the FP2020 target and in step with the highly radicalized agenda of sexual and reproductive health and rights (SRHR) which is right now sweeping through the western world like a hurricane, destroying countless lives, homes, marriages and families.
They gather in our Capital with their "family planning" conference in order to disparage our widely held and shared cultural and religious views on life, love, marriage and family. It is an attack on the natural modesty and innocence of our youth who are vulnerable and so impressionable.
This conference was not convened out of great necessity in my country and it was not conceived in Nigeria. Rather it was convened at the behest of the cultural imperialists who consider themselves our "betters" and it was conceived in the hearts of powerful western social engineers who are already well known for their commitment to the SRHR propaganda. They are the same people who are mindlessly promoting abortion around the world. They are the same ones who have paved the path for the ongoing LGBT revolution in the west. They are the same ones implicated in various draconian population control programs around the world. And yet, Nigeria opens the door to them. We acknowledge their "superiority" on matters of family life. We allow them access to our youth. We accept their poisoned gifts of contraceptives. We agree to their radical demands made in the spirit of social experimentation.
If we do not wake up now, we will surely fall off a cultural cliff beyond which there is colossal and irreparable destruction of marriage and family life.
I appeal passionately to my people, do not fall for the lies of misguided western ideologues. Instead, let us together as a people reconsider carefully and reflect deeply on the true meaning, purpose and implications of " Family Planning". For this, we do not need wealthy sponsors, donors, partners and planners who have emerged from a broken world where the sanctity of human life is denied, where the law allows for the killing of the unborn, where sex outside of marriage has been normalized, where the divorce rates are staggering and the suicide rates are incredibly high.
These, are the marks of failure etched on the faces of the same people bringing us the unsolicited gift of "family planning".
If we are truly wise, we should not give them access to our intimate lives, our precious families, our innocent children and our cherished women.
We may be poor but our dignity is ours, so let us not fail or fall for what the 21st century cultural imperialists have surreptitiously labelled as "family planning" or what they have cunningly called the most "unmet need" of Africa.
Saturday, 6 December 2014
STOP CHEMICAL WARFARE ON POOR WOMEN: ONE DOLLAR CONTRACEPTIVE?
Press Release by: Catholic Bishops Conference of Nigeria
The Catholic Bishops Conference of Nigeria (CBCN) through its Health Committee has followed with keen interest the recent announcement by the trio of Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation, Pfizer Pharmaceuticals Incorporated and Child Investment Fund Foundation on the roll out of the so-called one dollar injectable contraceptive “Sayana Press”. This easy-to-administer form of an old drug by Pfizer Incorporated is being hailed by many as the magic wand to reduce poverty and emancipate poor women in over 69 countries around the world especially in Sub Saharan Africa, Asia and Latin America.
The active chemical ingredient in Sayana Press is the synthetic analogue of the body biological messenger (hormone) known as progesterone. It is branded progestin-only contraceptive, depot medroxyprogesterone acetate ((Depo provera); a long acting hormonal birth control drug that is injected every 3 months. This medication was hitherto given by trained health workers. But the new packaging form makes it possible for literally any woman to self-inject the chemical agent.
In the current rage to promote and distribute Sayana Press to women in the poorest countries of the world including Nigeria, the whole facts about the drug are not being told to the unsuspecting consumers. For example, Depo provera has long been associated with serious side effects and health conditions that led to its ban in many developed countries. Specifically, the one dollar contraceptive can result to varying degrees of sterility, irregular menstrual periods, or no menstrual periods at all, high blood pressure, excessive weight gain (obesity), depression and nervous breakdown, hair loss, reduced libido with the associated marital disharmony and family breakdown, increased risks of cancers of the breast, cancer of the cervix (neck of the womb) and the ovary as well as loss of bone mineral mass resulting to easy-to-fracture weak bones (osteoposis). Other known side effects include acne, excessive hair growth of facial and body hair.
Given the many reported side effects of the main ingredient in the “one dollar injectable” contraceptive, we urge the Federal Ministry of Health, State ministries of health, the National Primary Health Development Agency as well as development support agencies to immediately halt the distribution of this harmful chemical to Nigerian women and in fact, all women across the world who now stand in danger of serious untoward effects from the drug.
On the contrary, we would like to reiterate the need and urgency for the promotion of the total health of families with particular respect to the procreative wellbeing of women and young adults. This can be realized through the universalization of natural methods of fertility management – Natural Family Planning (NFP). These methods which are based on the innate features of each woman’s reproductive biology are safe, cheap, easily learned and without the numerous adverse effects of artificial family planning chemicals and devices. Finally, NFP methods do not infringe against the faith, morals or cultures of communities across the world. They encourage communication, mutual respect and responsibility and effective male involvement, thus enhancing family unity, integrity and societal stability.
We firmly declare that this is not democratic and is even unethical to continue the agenda of throwing commodities with known dangers and potential risks at the vulnerable peoples of the world who are often uninformed about all the issues concerned.
We hereby call on all our agencies to study the issues thoroughly and deploy all media, grassroot/pastoral organs to correctly inform our people of the risks they run by patronising these means and methods. No one has a right to suspend parental guidance and spiritual care by the Church from the life of our people and especially the youth.
We call for vigilance from all stakeholders on these issues regarding human life and family.